Set Up the Coffee. Sweep the Floor. Walk the Dogs.

Creatures of habit tend to get satisfaction out of doing things they are in the habit of doing.  For years, I have set up the coffee, swept the floor and walked the dogs as part of my nighttime ritual.  I’ve only missed completing those things a handful of times.  Accomplishing them makes me feel settled.  I bet you have things you do, every evening, that mark the end of the day.  Do you make school lunches, re-set the couch pillows, start the dishwasher or take out the trash? Whatever you do, the behavior sets a pattern that becomes familiar, maybe even calming.

It’s comforting to know that the coffee is going to be waiting  as soon as I get up. That way, I don’t have to fumble around fixing it in my early morning state of grogginess.  During my pre-coffee years, I had energy to spare.  Now, admittedly, the early morning hit of caffeine helps me start the day.  Years ago, I was at the the gym working out at 6 am.  I’d rush out the door without giving the Lord a second thought, let  alone a first.  Thankfully, some of that high intensity energy has dissipated, leaving room for a little wisdom to creep in, at least enough to know that putting the Lord first every day is most important.  Now, when I set up the coffee, I renew the  commitment to spend time with Him the next morning.  It’s comforting to know He will be waiting for me to sit with Him and His Word while I have my first cup.

Have you ever noticed that debris from the outside makes its way in, no matter how hard you try to keep it out?  Even if your family takes their shoes off at the door, bits and pieces get tracked in, especially if you live in the country and have children and pets.  Not only do you have the stuff that migrates in from outside, you have all the miscellaneous bits that are generated internally.  Does anyone else have a child who loves to make bracelets?  I’ve swept up enough miniature rubber bands, in all the colors of the rainbow, to stretch around the earth.  If I didn’t sweep every night, before long, I’d be hiring a bulldozer to clear paths.

Have you ever noticed that debris from the world makes its way into your soul, no matter how hard you try to keep it out?  Worldly influences, temptations, and sugar coated lies get tracked into who you are.   Not only do you have to battle those things, you have to acknowledge the internal humanity of self that creates sinful debris.  Lately, when I sweep my floor, I think through all the times I messed up that day, asking my Father to forgive me for impatient tones, selfish desires and wayward thoughts.  I ask Him to sweep those things away and leave a clean surface that He can write His name and characteristics on.  I’m so thankful that daily confessions ARE NOT required to keep my salvation solid.  Salvation is secure from the moment we first believe, because it all depends on what Jesus did, not on what we did or do.  However, the quality of the relationship with our Father does depend on keeping a clean “floor.”  Un-confessed sin is like debris that gets in the way of communication, blessing and growth.

1 John 1:9-10 says: If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.  If we claim we have not sinned, we make Him out to be a liar and the truth is not in us.

Finally, before the doors are locked up for the night, I take Frosty and Copper out for their last walk of the day. Oscar the cat is waiting to  join us.  Human, feline and canines walk into the softness of the night.  Sometimes, I take a flashlight, or sometimes not, if the moon-glow is bright.   I know each day is a gift, but I’m  developing the habit to breathe in the day God has given me during those last moments of wakefulness.

Are the stars especially bright?  Is there a ring around the moon? Does the scent of honeysuckle clothe the night air? How does the breeze feel against my skin?  Perhaps the fireflies are flickering like Christmas lights hung throughout the woods and dotting the meadow like tiny, twinkling stars captured in the grass.  I soak it up and bring it back inside.  God’s gifts nestled, in my heart, remind me that my Savior is also Creator, and that the hand that guides me is the same one that stretches out the heavens like a canopy, and that the voice which knows my name is the same voice which makes the wind and waves obey.

If you are His child, through Jesus Christ, He guides you, too, and is waiting for you to seek Him.  He gives you each moment in this life and died for each moment of your eternity.    Such love must be remembered.  Make it part of your habit to weave Him into the fabric of the simple  tasks of life. Set up the coffee.  Sweep the floor. Walk the dogs.  Remember Him.

 

Holding On

Even in the presence of faith, cancer is a scary word.  It shouted its way into the vocabulary of my family seven years ago when I was diagnosed with melanoma.  Once again, it has forced its way into our personal language, by entering the life of another family member.  It is a word that doesn’t discriminate or show mercy.  It’s an ugly by-product of our fallen world.

There are many other scary words out there; spawned when perfection was shattered in the Garden of Eden. Divorce, abuse, suicide, disease, infirmity, financial hardship, to name just a few.  They are real words that cause real pain.  They can easily become weapons that satan uses to steal our joy, obscure our blessings, cause worry and anxiety about tomorrow, blurring our vision to the point where our  human-sized problems overshadow a universe-sized God.

Jesus Christ said that in this world we will have trouble.  (John 16:33)  Not if, but will.  Not if, but when. He isn’t the world’s biggest pessimist.  He is the world’s only Savior.  He knew that only the sacrifice of His life would be the answer for a world jolted by sin.  He knew that only in Him is there a promise for an eternity without tears and sadness.  Only in Him is there the gift of His Spirit living inside those who become children of God.  Only in Him is there the strength to hold on, hold up and hold fast.

Our words can’t out-shout, out-cry, or out-last the fallen-world words, but the One who is known as The Word* can.  His words say: ” But take heart, I have overcome the world.” That’s not an empty promise or a “feel good” expression uttered at a superficial level. It has soul-deep repercussions.  It doesn’t make the promise to calm every storm, but it gives the promise of an anchor to hold on to.  It doesn’t present the hope for an easy life, but it guarantees  an eternal life that is beyond the imagining of the here-and-now life we cling to so desperately. It reassures us that the hand which created the world is the hand that sees us through this world and into the next, holding on, never letting go.

My youngest child loves to hold hands when we walk.  Her little hand slips into mine or her daddy’s in such a comfortable, natural way.  A trip to the chicken pen in the backyard or to the end of the drive to get the mail, with her hand in mine, turns the ordinary into the extraordinary.

Psalm 33:6 says: “By the word of the Lord were the heavens made, their starry hosts by the breath of His mouth.”  The same God who spoke the stars into existence has a hand ready for you to slip yours into.  The hand that crafted your body and gave you life is the same hand that can turn weapons into tools.  Instead of destroying, God can make the fallen-world words instruments that shape our character, refine our faith, draw us closer to Him and teach others about the hope we have in Him.

In Him, in His hands, there is hope, comfort, peace.  The ordinary can become the extraordinary. The frightening can become reassurance in the One Who is Trustworthy.

Each breath, each day, is a gift.  The real gift, however, is life in Him.

If you need to know what that really means, or how to be in Him, ask me at janey.d@hughes.net.  If the subject of this post touches your life and you want to share, please  make a comment, so that others may be inspired by your words.  If you know someone who is dealing with their own fallen-world words; please share this blog along with your prayers for them.

In Him.

His hand is stretched out.  Will you take it?

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John 16:33

“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace.  In this world you will have trouble.  But take heart!  I have overcome the world.”

* Explore further: John, Chapter 1, specifically 1:1-2, 14, and all of Chapter 16 (to see what things Jesus is talking about.)

 

 

 

 

The Man With the Shriveled Hand

 

The blackberry bushes are loaded with blooms.

The blackberry bushes are loaded with blooms.

My Daddy would have called this a Blackberry Winter.  I could see my breath as I walked the dogs early this morning, and my hands were quickly chilled. Thick socks, a blanket over my legs and a steaming cup of coffee felt very cozy when we finished our walk and I took my seat on the deck.   The shadows were long on the dewy grass, and Oscar, the girl’s gray cat, stalked something only he could see at the edge of the yard.  The birds, jockeying for position at the feeders, seemed oblivious to him.

A few hot days spoke sharply of summer last week, but a cold front crept in, clashed with the sultry air, drenched the earth, and  left deliciously cool days.

In very much the same way, God allows storms in our life to occur, so that our personal “climate” changes.  Isaiah 48:10 says:

“See, I have refined you, though not as silver; I have tested you in the furnace of affliction.”

Why would a loving God allow difficulties to rage in our lives?   Every storm we face spawns from the sinful nature of mankind and a fallen, imperfect world.  God allows those storms, because He knows that storms will test and refine our faith,  help us find or develop a closer walk with Him and tear away “dead branches” that clutter our character.

You can develop an “Emergency List” of things to keep on hand, and actions to take when a natural storm occurs. It’s good to be prepared. But in some cases, no amount of preparation can protect you.  Storms of great magnitude leave piles of rubble, dashed dreams, and shriveled spirits.  How do you pick up the pieces and deal with the challenges left behind?

God’s Word gives the answers:  truth, wisdom and freedom.  Pour a cup of coffee,  grab your Bible, sit with me and let’s look in God’s Word.

Luke 6:6-11.

On another Sabbath He went into a synagogue and was teaching, and a man was there whose right hand was shriveled.  The Pharisees and teachers of the law were looking for a reason to accuse Jesus, so they watched closely to see if He would heal on the Sabbath.  But Jesus knew what they were thinking and said to the man with the shriveled hand, “Get up and stand in front of everyone.”  So he got up and stood there.  Then Jesus said to them,” I ask you which is lawful on the Sabbath: to do good or to do evil, to save life or destroy it?”  He looked around at them all, and then said to the man,”Stretch out your hand.” He did so, and his hand was completely restored.  But they were furious and began to discuss with one another what they might do to Jesus.

The big picture here  has to do with the relationship between Jesus and the religious leaders of the day, (teachers of the law and Pharisees).  They simply didn’t believe Jesus was God’s Son.  They were outraged when He told people their sins were forgiven and  hated Him because He saw through them and knew they loved their law more than God. Jesus didn’t bow to their authority and follow their traditions.  One of those was a hot topic: God’s fourth commandment: concerning what was allowed on the Sabbath.

Over time, the scribes, who became teachers of the law, developed layers of laws and traditions on top of God’s original. They came up with 39 categories of things not allowed on the Sabbath.  Practicing medicine was one of those. Jesus chose compassion above their law and healed on the Sabbath.  It incited them to plot against Him. Ultimately, their hatred of Him was the tool God used to take Jesus to the cross and carry out His plan of salvation.   But, let’s set the big picture aside, and look closely at:

The Man With the Shriveled Hand

We don’t know why or for how long the man’s hand had been shriveled.  All we know is that it was his right one. We can safely say this man had challenges. Without the ability to use his hand, the muscles in his arm, shoulder and back had likely atrophied, because bodies are designed to function as connected units.

In the same way, emotional damage, done to your spirit, rarely stays isolated.  You may try to cover it up, but it impacts other parts of your life.  Emotional harm can be more damaging than physical wounds.  We can move beyond that only  through the presence of Jesus in our lives. 

We don’t know this man’s name, whether he had a family, what his profession was or any of his life details, but what we do know speaks powerfully.

Insights and Life Applications:

  • God was compassionately involved in the detail of the man’s life.  Luke 6:8 records that Jesus went into a synagogue to teach.  “A man was there” it says.  We have a God of purpose, not coincidence.  The man with the shriveled hand was there because God had a plan for this man’s life and his disability.  Matthew 10:28-31 shows how God is involved in the details of YOUR life and how He knows and allows  all things.

God knows every sin, heartache, and tear. His compassion, greater than our understanding, seeks our best, as He defines it, and He knows that life storms develop our character, faith and spiritual maturity.  

  • The man had the courage to obey Jesus.  Jesus said, “Get up and stand in front of everyone.” Pharisees hung on the edge, watching to see what Jesus would do.  All eyes in the temple were likely riveted on the man with the shriveled hand.  Most of us don’t like to have attention drawn to ourselves.  But the man became an instant focal point.   Scripture says, “So he got up and stood there.”  Did he tremble or stand without fear? All we need to know is that he obeyed Jesus.

Step out and say you need Jesus, either for salvation, or to get through a storm in your life. Admitting that need takes many people out of their comfort zones.   If you’ve already made that step, then have the courage to live for Him.  When you hear Jesus calling you to come to Him, or do something for Him, what’s your posture?  Do you hunker down or are you ready to stand?

  • The man’s faith in Jesus overcame his insecurity.  Not only did Jesus ask him to stand, but he said, “Stretch out your hand.” He asked him to display his weakness.  Was he insecure about that shriveled hand? Had to be. We all have insecurities.

We must recognize we can never be completely secure in ourselves.  It is only in God that we find security. We have to stretch our insecurities out to Him in faith and let Him work in and through those. Scripture said  “He did so and his hand was completely restored.”  He Who Restores works in the presence of faith.   Read: Matthew 9:27-30 (with faith)   Matthew 13:54-58  (without faith).

Here’s a hard truth: God answers prayers offered in faith IF they are in line with His will.  You may ask in faith for Him to calm a storm; but it may be God’s will for you to endure it because He has a higher purpose.

What did the man do after his hand was restored? I wonder if the man was married.  Did he run home, swing his wife around, stroke her cheek with a hand that once was shriveled?  Did he scoop up his children with two strong arms and dance with them?  Did he build a house, plant a garden, reach out to someone in need?  Whatever he did, you can be sure his life was changed because Jesus re-created his hand!  We don’t know his story.  What is your story like?

2 Corinthians 5:17

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come.

If you are a believer, Jesus re-created you, taking a spirit shriveled with sin and restoring it so you could have a relationship with God.  Write the story of your life for Him!

Learn from the man with the shriveled hand.  Stretch it out for Jesus.  Believe: He has a purpose for you AND what you are going through.  He compassionately loves you and wants to work through your storms.  Trust Him.  Become His child.

Blessings, to you.  Join me again, for coffee and time in His Word.  We’ll share some Blackberry Cobbler when the berries are ripe.

 

Oscar goes on family walks with the dogs, loves people and knows how to enjoy life.

Oscar goes on family walks with the dogs, loves people and knows how to enjoy life.  The morning light makes him look more blue than gray!

 

 

 

 

 

Strands and Sand

Running on the beach can be invigorating. Crashing waves distract you, ocean breezes cool you, fresh air fills your lungs. Or, it can be humbling, especially when the sand is the squishy kind that holds onto each foot and threatens to sink you up to your knees.

Such it was when my friend Melissa and I took an early morning run back in March. We were in Kitty Hawk, for a weekend marriage retreat. Our husbands and most of the others were still snoozing in the beach house.  Even with the quicksand-like conditions we plowed ahead.  Melissa seemed less affected by the marshy surface than I was. Still, it was good.  I’ll take that to running on city sidewalks any day.

We talked about God-things, and the time and  surroundings was a blessing.  Real friends  are a precious gift from God and connected friendships don’t happen by coincidence.  God puts certain people in our lives for a purpose.  Recognize those  friendships in your life and weave yourself into them, so that you can encourage, support and inspire each other to live for Him!  This takes time and cultivation.  Rarely do these kind of friendships  happen overnight, but they are well worth the investment!

I Thessalonians 5:10-11 says:

He died for us so that, whether we are awake or asleep, we may live together with Him. Therefore, encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.”

On the way back, an aggressive wave chased us into sprint mode, but we still got our feet wet. As the wave retreated, we noticed two big shells laying in the sand. Conchs, we thought at the time. We snatched them up and ran on. (I have since learned they may be Whelk Shells, possibly Knobbed Whelks. If there is a shell expert out there, and I’m mistaken, please correct me!)

A few minutes later, Melissa stopped and picked up something very odd. It dangled from her hand in a swirly, snake-y kind of way.   If it was a snake, then she clearly had abilities I didn’t know about.

Neither one of us knew what it was, but we decided to keep it.  Two steps later, I found my own.  We continued our run, floundering on with our biological wonders, each of us with a big shell in one hand and a dangling mystery in the other.

When we got to the beach house, everyone was up and the smell of breakfast was tantalizing.  We had sort of gotten lost on the way back and the return had taken longer than it should have.  My husband, Brian, unveiled the mystery of our find through an internet search.  Our snake-like treasures were actually whelk  egg cases.  A whelk is a predatory marine snail who attaches its egg cases to the bottom of the ocean.   Rough storms can sever the connection that holds them in place and the waves take over from there, sweeping the egg cases to the beach where the eggs or (if hatched) tiny whelks inside dry out and die in the sun.

I recently did some more research on that, since I wanted to write a post.  It was late at night when I started diving into the world of whelks and egg cases and I was already tired.  My eyes were heavy, but at first it was interesting.  Some sources said the cases are connected to the sand by strands,  other entries said whelks attach the cases to rocks and others just said they anchor the end of the case in the ocean floor. There was even more detail, but by then my head was spinning.  Maybe they do it all.  I guess I was looking for one definitive answer.  When I looked at my watch and noticed it was after midnight, and that I was sacrificing precious sleep time for egg cases, I realized I had taken that search too far.  This is, after all, a post, not a term paper.

Surprisingly, I didn’t have weird dreams.  I originally wanted more answers because I can’t help but see the correlation between whelk egg cases and  the parable of the man who built his house on the sand.  Know the story? The storms came along and the house fell with a crash. The other man Jesus spoke of built on rock, giving his house a strong foundation that stood against the storms. (Read it in Matthew 7:24-27!)

I believe that God illustrates Himself and His truths in nature if we look with eyes of faithful curiosity.

Romans 1:20 says, “For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities – His eternal power and divine nature – have been clearly seen, being understood by what has been made, so that men are without excuse.”

The wonders of our natural world are on display so that we can believe in a magnificently imaginative Creator; who wants to teach us about Himself in multiple ways.

So, what  life lesson from the Word do we see portrayed in the whelk egg case?  Life   rooted in the things of the world  can shift and change with the whims of man, and will not stand the storms that buffet.  Careers, financial security, self-empowerment and social standards are like quicksand that will suck you in and give you no support when upheaval comes.

Life built on solid faith in Jesus Christ is what it takes to withstand the turbulent waves, which often come without warning: cancer, other illnesses, financial hardship, divorce, failure and trauma, to name a few.

Build your life on the Rock of Jesus Christ.  He is the Way, the Truth, the Life.  Seek to learn what those things are in His Holy Word, by forming friendships with other believers and by listening to Godly teachers.  Open your eyes to see His hand in the detail and wonder of our natural world.

Where to start? Read the book of John.   Take advantage of technology (wow, did I write that??) and listen to PodCasts by awesome teachers of God’s Word, like  Louie Giglio (from Passion City Church in Atlanta).

Here’s a picture of the whelk shell and egg case, which was originally quite springy.  Over a few days it dried out.  The tiny, dried whelks are visible inside the medallion shaped cases.  This made for a great home school lesson, too!

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